Do remarriage sealings settle who is together eternally?
A widow asks why she needs to cancel her first sealing to be sealed to her current husband. A friend who married a widower wonders what his two sealings mean for her in eternity.
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Exchange 1 of 3
“A member says: “My husband died, and I remarried. Why can my widower friend be sealed again after his wife died, while I need a cancellation?” What does current policy say?”
Exchange 2 of 3
“Does the living-member rule mean a deceased woman can never be sealed to more than one husband?”
Exchange 3 of 3
“A friend asks, “Since my husband and his first wife were sealed, will I have to share him in eternity?” What can you tell her?”
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The rules for living members are genuinely asymmetric: a woman sealed to a deceased husband needs a cancellation before sealing to another man, while a widower may be sealed again after his wife’s death if the other woman is eligible. Divorce has separate clearance requirements. For deceased people, the Handbook permits proxy sealings to multiple legal spouses under specific conditions and consent rules. The Church also explicitly teaches that God will not force anyone into or keep anyone in an unwanted marriage, and that arrangements will be worked out with justice, mercy, love, and agency. That assurance does not map every relationship. Oaks directly addressed the anxiety of being a second wife and said much remains unknown; he counseled trust without presenting a particular arrangement as settled doctrine.